Last night, the legendary Isley Brothers performed at The Theater at MGM in Oxon Hill, MD, so I felt it was only fitting to highlight one of their later songs that wasn’t in the setlist for this week’s Slow Jam Saturday. The song I chose is “Secret Lover” from their 2001 album “Eternal.”
With its Hip Hop samples and Ron’s alter ego, “Mr. Biggs,” the group began to reach a new generation of fans. Although a certain unnamed disgraced R&B producer gave the group their biggest hit with “Contagious,” R&B icons including Jimmy Jam & Terry Lewis, Dre & Vidal, and Raphael Saadiq also contributed to the album.
“Secret Lover” was written and produced by Steve “Stone” Huff, who was making a name for himself with his work with R&B artist Avant, who also provides backing vocals on this track. The song leans into Ron’s “Mr. Biggs” persona, painting a picture of an established sugar daddy who is a side piece to a younger woman. Ronald Isley’s silky tenor drives the narrative, blending timeless soul with modern sensuality.
The song explores themes of forbidden romance and hidden desire. Its intro establishes a mysterious atmosphere with melodic ad-libs, inviting listeners into a world of secrecy. The first verse conveys anticipation: “I’ve been waiting for you, girl / So much on my mind I wanna do,” alluding to intimate nights of passion. The chorus, led by Avant, uses playful imagery—“My secret lover / My mystery girl / I wanna play hide and seek”—to emphasize discreet encounters.
Subsequent verses build erotic tension through vivid metaphors, such as candlelit shadows, rhythmic movements, and culinary allusions like “This meal is on my plate / I can’t wait to taste.” The bridge and outro evoke privacy and ecstasy, fading with whispers of wind and waves.
While the song wasn’t included in their setlist, it remains a personal favorite and holds up twenty-four years later. It masterfully captures the allure of illicit affairs through evocative lyrics and polished production, solidifying its status as a quintessential slow jam for intimate settings.
Final Grade: B+
“Secret Lover” is available on all streaming platforms.
I’ve always been a fan of Eric Bellinger. My admiration stems not only from the records he has released under his own name but also from the impressive career he built behind the scenes. Long before casual R&B listeners recognized his face, they were already familiar with his songwriting through tracks he penned for artists like Chris Brown, Usher, Justin Bieber, and Wale.
As many of you know, I had the opportunity to visit Paisley Park earlier this week while vacationing in Minnesota. During the tour, our guide shared that an expanded edition of Prince’s album “Parade” is expected to be released to celebrate its 40th anniversary. After spending the day exploring the Twin Cities, it felt like the perfect excuse to revisit one of the most fascinating and underrated albums in Prince’s legendary catalog.
One of the reasons I’ve always considered Prince to have the edge over Michael Jackson is his remarkable collection of ballads and