As many of my regular readers know, I have a strong affinity for nineties R&B music. Music enthusiasts know that back in the nineties, the market was oversaturated, making it sometimes difficult for singers with powerful vocals to stand out. I want to feature Big Bub for Slow Jam on Saturday this week.
Big Bub gained recognition as the lead vocalist of the underrated R&B group Today. When the group went on hiatus, Big Bub released his debut solo album in 1992 and later found success for his work behind the scenes. In 1997, he released his second solo album, “Timeless,” which included the song “Settle Down”.
“Settle Down” was written by Bub, Tom Jefferson, Sherri Blair, and Blackstreet members Chauncey Hannibal & Teddy Riley, with Riley also producing. A wedding song that may have been a hit if given to another artist, such as Boyz II Men, New Edition, or Dru Hill, “Settle Down,” explains when a man is ready to be with his queen.
In the first verse, Big Bub acknowledges that they are being honest and vulnerable, expressing their love and admiration for their partner from the beginning. They reflect on the years they have spent together, recognizing the effort and growth it took to reach this point. They contemplate the consequences of losing their partner and express their fear of that possibility.
The chorus emphasizes the desire to advance in the relationship and marry. Big Bub suggests meeting at the altar in a white dress, symbolizing a traditional marriage ceremony. They acknowledge that time is ticking and that they should seize the opportunity to commit, proclaiming their feelings and confessing that they have been feeling this way for a while now.
The second verse further emphasizes Big Bub’s exhaustion with emptiness and a desire to be exclusive with their partner. He expresses discontent with casual relationships and emphasizes the deep connection they share. Bub also mentions the idea of building a future together, including the possibility of having children and seeking everlasting commitment.
The bridge amplifies Big Bub’s commitment and eagerness to start a family and be together. They emphasize the need for their partner’s presence and express readiness for the next chapter of their lives.
While “Settle Down” may only be remembered by die-hard R&B fans, the track should have been one that got as spin as “All My Life.”
Final Grade: B+
“Settle Down” is available on all streaming platforms.”.
