Michelle, a distinct vocalist in the R&B scene, is currently on tour with other notable R&B artists such as Trey Songz, Jahiem, and Keyshia Cole. This presents a perfect opportunity to revisit her second single, ‘Can’t Raise a Man,’ from her debut studio album ‘Rebellious Soul’ (2014), for this week’s Slow Jam Saturday.
‘Can’t Raise a Man’ was produced by Bridgetown, Troy Taylor, and Ezekiel Lewis and written by Taylor, Lewis, Menardini Timothee, and Najja McDowell. In this song, K. Michelle explores the frustration and realization many of us have experienced: the struggle to change someone resistant to personal growth despite our love and efforts. The song vividly portrays a relationship where K. Michelle grapples with a partner who has not embraced responsibility, respect, or commitment.
In the first verse, the lyrics tell us about a man who struggles with emotional growth and understanding how to genuinely love. His actions are erratic, and he seems to play mind games—clearly reflecting his immaturity. The chorus drives home a heartfelt truth: no matter how much effort the protagonist puts into trying to change him, it’s all in vain because he’s already set in his ways. His behavior is more like that of a boy than a grown man, suggesting that perhaps he wasn’t given the proper guidance before their relationship began.
The second verse dives deeper into this man’s irresponsible actions—like coming home at any night and expecting forgiveness without facing any real consequences. K. Michelle wonders how many tears she’ll shed as she watches their love shift its shape. The chorus echoes again: attempting to transform someone who either can’t or won’t change is an exercise in futility. K. Michelle sings the lyrics with a passion that anyone who has ever dated a man-child can relate to.
While she would find more success with reality TV and is shifting to country music, “Can’t Raise A Man” still resonates ten years after its release.
Final Grade: B+
“Can’t Raise A Man” is available on all streaming platforms.
Martial arts auteur Siyu Cheng delivers his latest action-packed fest in “The Tai Chi Master” from Well Go USA. The Tai Chi Master” examines the journey of Zhang Junbao, a dedicated disciple of Wuji, who emerges as a crucial figure during significant upheaval.
On a musical level, the documentary is a library of Williams’ great works. It’s dramatic performances of his most famous songs, such as the classic “Star Wars” marches, the grand piano music from “Jurassic Park,” and the melancholy music from “Schindler’s List.” Each song is part of a narrative, a call to revisit old films and remember their heart-wrenching connections. Its thrilling finale (which celebrated his work on “Harry Potter”) also underscores the longevity of his music among audiences today.
Megan Fox teams up with director S.K. Dale to bring her feminine wiles to the world of A.I. in “Subservience” from XYZ Films. Will Honley and April Maguire wrote the film’s screenplay. Alice (Fox) is a lifelike, artificially intelligent android who can care for any family and home. Looking for help with the housework, struggling father Nick (Michele Morrone) purchases Alice after his wife Maggie (Madeline Zima) becomes sick. Alice suddenly becomes self-aware and wants everything her new family has to offer, starting with the affection of her owner — and she’ll kill to get it.