This week’s Slow Jam Saturday pick takes us to the Windy City to highlight Dave Hollister and his song “Can’t Stay.” While he may have caught the ear of mainstream listeners as a member of Blackstreet, before he crooned the classic “Lately I’ve been thinking,” Dave had already made a name for himself as a group Force One Network member.
His success there led to collaborations with Father MC, Hi-Five, and 2Pac. Leaving Blackstreet to pursue a solo career, Hollister kicked things off in 1998 with “Weekend,” which featured Def Squad members Erick Sermon and Redman. Led by the single “My Favorite Girl,” his debut “Ghetto Hymns” hit stores in the spring of 1999.
The album’s second single, “Can’t Stay,” was composed by Hollister and co-produced by Gene Peoples. The song delves into the painful realization of a stagnant and unhealthy relationship. The lyrics convey a profound frustration and disappointment as Dave acknowledges that, despite assurances of change, the situation remains unchanged.
“Can’t Stay” also focuses on the relationship dynamics between Dave and his partner. The first verse reflects on the couple’s fond memories and contemplation of what went wrong. Despite receiving warnings from friends regarding the pace of their relationship, they clung to hope, yearning for their partner’s enduring affection.
In the chorus, Dave communicates their decision to end the relationship, citing the inability to continue living a facade. They express a desire for independence and individual pursuit of happiness. In the second verse, Dave divulges their conscientious efforts to nurture the relationship, including embracing their partner’s children and sharing the joy of parenthood.
However, the discovery of his partner’s infidelity prompts feelings of betrayal and emotional neglect. The bridge articulates Dave’s yearning for a harmonious and secure home life, accompanied by frustration over unfulfilled desires. The song’s outro presents a reflective moment as Dave acknowledges the painful reality of love, often leading to heartache. Despite the hurtful circumstances, Dave expresses gratitude for the clarity and resolves to pursue a healthier love elsewhere.
While “Can’t Stay didn’t necessarily make a dent on the pop charts, the songs remain a testament to Hollister’s impeccable vocal talent.
Final Grade: B+
“Can’t Stay” is accessible on all major streaming platforms
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